Here are ways to re-ignite the spark,
passion and the romance in your relationship:
1) Show them the love
Express
your love to them every day, at least once a day. Show your care, don’t just
speak it; it must be accompanied by actions. For example, hugging him/her
whenever you meet or doing something special for him/her.
2) Create time to be alone together.
Happy
couples understand that time together is the glue that keeps their relationship
close and vital, so they make their intimate relationship a top priority, and
they don't spend their "prime time" watching TV or otherwise being
preoccupied with other things. They learn how to grow together rather than
apart, by doing projects, activities, chores, goals, parenting and recreation
together. A conversation needs to occur between the two of you reevaluating and
renegotiating the priorities in your marriage.
3) Create
a connection
Intimate
connection is about creating an emotional atmosphere where there is reciprocal
heartfelt sharing of your inner dreams, your longings, fears, hurts,
sensitivities and your vulnerabilities. Although it can also be about money,
the kids and work, intimate communication is essentially sharing what you're
feeling and what you dream about.
4) Show affection
Warm
touches, close hugs, kisses, holding hands, cuddling and comforting. When
touching, the body releases a hormone; Oxycontin which increases trust and a
sense of safety, reduces stress and increases sexual arousal.
5) Play
together.
Be
playful in your interactions. Have a sense of humor in times of stress. Find
something playful to do that you both enjoy and make it a priority to keep it
in your schedule. Play is critical to our sense of connection to others, and to
our joy in life. Try some of the simple things: take a hike together, go to a
movie, give each other a massage, go dancing or plan a romantic weekend getaway
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